These are an interesting and varied breed. Not all have any identification (consciously or otherwise) with the label or even really the stereotype of the willing cuckold. (interesting trivia, the term for that is witall (sp?) ).
I of course could commiserate since I was by definition and by virtue of my wife's affair a cuckold myself in the classical sense. I learned early never to mention it. If I mention a wife in past tense at all i say little, It pains me to hear their query about. "Wasn't it kind of hot that she was fucking someone else?"
"No, you dumb fuck it was painful, Oh and can I fuck your wife, by the way?".
Actually I do get it and its about control. If they permit and know about and live vicariously through it is kind of hot. If I had a stable relationship I wouldn;t be averse to some swinging, and it WOULD be hot to see her varied technique with another lover or two.
I have had the occaison to be with swingers who wanted a third. In those situations though the porno-fueled spit-roast is hot (and fun!) I prefer taking my own time and direction with her and watching his turn as well., a voyeur exhibitionist thing I think.
Some cucks and swingers have bi-leanings (expressed or not some don't). Not my thing, and have never felt pressured.
I find that the majority of men I have corresponded with about their wives aren't in a position to close the sale but it is fun talking to them about it. Most happily and proudly send a picture or two, and those make for interesting viewing. Fun to think about, for them and me. I like to think I have made some practical suggestions and in a few cases it did bear fruit but not for me. The thank you for helping me get my wife laid is not a card Hallmark carries and is surreal to receive an email like that.
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